I tried to reason with my parents for almost a month and lost the battle.  There were some really emotional dialogue on how they will hit the grave early if I left them to be alone.. and the like.. I knew if I go ahead with it, every turn someone is unwell I will beat myself up with more guilt than I can take.. I will not be able to live peacefully. So I have decided to let it out for rent.  Now is not my time.  Everyone’s behaviour has changed for the better since then my parents don’t squabble much anymore, niether are they sitting on my head for some of the stuff.. they are giving me space I need (for now! )   But the sad part is, a really nicely done new apartment will be used by someone else. ..sigh!  But i think for now I am in peace about this whole decision.